There is no doubt that every parent wants what’s best for their kids, especially when it comes to education and development. What better way to nurture skills and knowledge than making learning fun with educational toys? We have found and sorted out educational toys for kids of different ages for your precious kiddos to enjoy.

At different ages, kids have different developmental needs. For toddlers and young children, the focus would be on their physical development like motor skills or speech development. As they grow older and transit into their teenage years, the focus shifts to cultivating values, building character and growing interest in STEM – science, technology, engineering, and math.

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– Toddlers aged 1 to 3 –

1. Baby Sensory Montessori toy by TOHIBEE

Explore colours & sensory experiences

Image adapted from: Toys Central

At the toddler stage of development, kids are still figuring out their simple motor skills like how to grab things. To help them get a better grasp, literally, TOHIBEE’s Baby Sensory Montessori toy will come in handy with its multicoloured strings of different textures, grip shapes, and sounds when pulled. This helps kids learn simple causes and effects, fine-tune their motor skills, and allow them to explore colours and sensory experiences.

Price: $68.40

Get the TOHIBEE Baby Sensory Montessori Toy from Toys Central.

2. Wooden Animal Stackers by Le Toy Van

Cute stackable animals for motor skills

Image credit: @letoyvantoys via Instagram

Other than being oh-so-cute, Le Toy Van’s Animal Stackers are useful in developing finger dexterity in children as your child works towards getting all the little animals stacked on top of each other without them toppling over.

Plus, depending on what kinds of wildlife your little munchkin likes, you can choose from various stacker sets based on habitats like the ocean or forest.

Price: $28.13

Get the Le Toy Van Animal Stackers from Amazon.

3. Colour Fun Fish Bowl from The Learning Journey

Learn colours with fishes

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The Colour Fun Fish Bowl not only teaches little ones colours but also puts their colour recognition skills to the test with it’s 2 modes – “Let’s learn colour” which lets the toddler know what colour fish has been put in and “Quiz mode” where the colour will be called out and your child has to put in the correct one. Other than learning the names of colours, it builds tactile skills and hand-eye coordination.

Price: $42.01

Get The Learning Journey’s Colour Fun Fish Bowl from Amazon.

4. Smart Counting Cookies by Learning Resources

Learn to count with cookies

Image adapted from: Learning Resources

While these irresistible-looking chocolate chip cookies are not meant for eating, they are a treat for your toddler’s brain. The Smart Counting Cookies set comes with a cookie jar and 11 cookies. This toy will come in handy when you want to teach little ones simple numbers and counting as the back of the cookies are numbered from 1 to 11, giving your child a visual aid.

Price: $32.73

Get the Learning Resources Smart Counting Cookies from Amazon.

– Kindergarteners aged 4 to 6 –

5. Magnetic Geometry Blocks toy by Mideer

Get creative with colourful magnets

Image adapted from: Mideer

Let your child’s imagination flow with Mideer’s Magnetic Geometry Block set that comes with a built-in mini whiteboard and a selection of 250 magnetic pieces of various shapes, colours, and sizes. For timed gameplay, instructions and example sheets are provided with the blocks to see how long it takes your kiddo to complete the design.

Price: $60

Get the Mideer Magnetic Geometry Block toy set from Shopee.

6. Colour Wonder Magic Brush by Crayola

Mess-free painting for kids

Image adapted from: Macy’s via Pinterest

Tired parents, rejoice, as we’ve got your back with the Colour Wonder Magic Brush which will leave you with minimal cleaning while your child paints away. This watercolour set is unique in the way that the colour only shows up on the special paper provided and will not stain clothing or your beauitful walls. Your little Picassos can select the colours using the brush that will light up the colour selected and go ham with their artistic expressions.

Price: $42.12

Get Crayola’s Colour Wonder Magic Brush at Amazon.

7. Logical Road Builder by BONITOTO

Build comprehensive abilities

Image adapted from: Toy Time

With 120 different ways to arrange the Logical Road Builder by BONITOTO, your child will be entertained for hours having fun figuring out the route to get the car from one end to the other. The template with the different starting points and difficulty levels allows you to keep track of your kiddo’s progress as they level up.

This toy will challenge your kid’s patience, and resilience, and help improve their problem-solving skills.

Price: $13.75

Get the BONITOTO Logical Road Builder from Amazon.

8. Money Activity Set by Learning Essentials

Learn how to use & count money

Image adapted from: Amazon.sg

The next stepping stone for every kindergartener is primary school where recess times means that they have to buy their food and pay for it. To make this a less nerve-wracking experience for you and your child, get them started with the Money Activity set. Provided in the set are toy notes, coins, a piggybank, and flashcards. The flashcards are puzzles indicating the cost of items for purchase and their matching piece has the correct value illustrated in the form of notes and coins.

Price: $37.88

Get the Learning Resources Money Activity set from Amazon.

– Lower primary schoolers aged 7 to 9 –

9. STEM adventure box set by TOYTAG

DIY gaming console & colorful robots

Image adapted from: TOYTAG

Develop your primary schooler’s interest in science and technology by getting them the STEM Adventure Box set from TOYTAG. Your youngster will get to build their very own game console with the instructions given and learn basic coding in MicroPython.

Choose from 9 different sets, each with robots that teach different science concepts:

• Artemis – LED technology, Electronic circuits
• Bob – Ohm’s law and resistance, Light
• Buttons – Sound synthesis, Microchips
• Capacitron – Oscillators, Capacitors and capacitance
• Hertz – Sound waves, Sound synthesis
• Marv – Integrated circuits, Electronic circuits
• Mr. Bee – Electromagnetic fields, Motion
• Resistron – Integrated Circuits, Variable Resistors
• Robby – LED technology, Vibration sensors

Price: $64.90

Get the TOYTAG STEM Adventure Box from the TOYTAG website.

10. Monopoly Super Electronic Banking Board Game by Hasbro

Modernised Monopoly

Image adapted from: Amazon

The Monopoly Super Electric Banking Card Game by Hasbro is an upgraded version of the classic Monopoly board game most of us grew up with. The main difference is that instead of the paper money we are familiar with, it uses a card system to make payments.

Allowing kids to handle their own card in-game teaches them responsibility and decision-making skills as they decide how to spend their game money wisely. Monopoly also involves a lot of strategic thinking as the kids figure out how they can win the game.

Price: $42.65

Get the Hasbro Electronic Banking MONOPOLY from Amazon.

11. Word game by Bananagrams

Form as many words as possible

Image credit: @karlaitzegunter, @bananagramsinc via Instagram

Similar to a game of Scrabble, the goal of Word game by Bananagrams is to form words and build crossword grids. Although the game can be played solo, you can turn up the intensity by getting the whole family involved to compete for the most number of words. This educational toy helps kids with their language skills by challenging them to use their vocab and spell out words.

Their range of word themes includes the ocean and Halloween. Plus, they all come in a cute banana-shaped pouch.

Price: $23.26

Get the Bananagram Word Game from Amazon.

12. Classic Jenga by Hasbro

A game of strategy & patience

Image credit: @morayo_busuyi via Instagram

I’m sure we’ve all played Jenga at least once in our lives. As many of you know, the goal is to slowly remove blocks one by one without getting the tower to fall. All the slow and steady movements needed and thinking required when choosing a block to remove are effective ways of teaching children patience and analytical skills. Plus, you can never go wrong with a classic.

Price: $23.51

Get the Hasbro Classic Jenga from Amazon.

– Upper primary schoolers aged 10 to 12 –

13. Balance Transport Ball

Teamwork makes the dream work

Slow and ready wins the race.
Image adapted from: Shoppee

Looks can be deceiving regarding how difficult the Balance Transport Ball game is. The objective is to balance the board on the index fingers of all group members while keeping the ball on the board from falling and getting to the end point where there is a bucket to deposit the ball. Through this process, it teaches important skills like teamwork and communication. And you can easily pull this out during your kid’s next birthday party for all their friends to play.

Price: From $35.25

Get the Balance Transport Ball game from Shopee.

14. Live Aqua Dragons by aqua Dragons

Easy to care for “pets”

Image credit: aqua Dragons

Getting a pet is every kid’s dream. For parents who hope to fulfill their child’s wishes but not jump right into getting a dog or cat, Live Aqua Dragons is the perfect compromise. These little sea creatures that hatch within 48 hours of being placed in water teach kids about responsibility as they have to be fed every 2-3 days and their water has to be aerated with the dropper.

To make it extra cool, the tank lights up too.

Price: $49.76

Get the Live Aqua Dragons from Amazon.

15. Ultimate Volcano Kit by National Geographic

DIY volcano that erupts

Image adapted from: Amazon.sg

Get your children involved in hands-on learning as they build, design, and erupt their own volcano with the Ultimate Volcano Kit by National Geographic. This fun scientific experience will likely nurture children’s interest in science and geography.

Plus, the kit comes with real volcanic rocks and allows kids to experiment with baking soda and vinegar, teaching them the basics of chemical reactions in a fun, engaging way. There’s also a guidebook with cool facts about volcanoes for those really into volcanoes.

Price: $27.10

Get the National Geographic Ultimate Volcano kit from Amazon.

16.  Magnetic Chess set by Chess Armory

Learn to be critical thinkers with a classic game of chess

Image adapted from: Amazon.sg

As the name suggests, the Magnetic Chess set is a magnetic chess board with magnetic chess pieces that secure it onto the board, allowing for gameplay without the worry of missing pieces or accidentally knocking them down. The board’s foldable frame means that you can keep all the pieces at the back too when you’re not battling it out.

Otherwise, this chess set is played like any other regular game of chess which teaches children how to think critically, strategise, think from other people’s perspectives, and fair play.

Price: $19.08

Get the Chess Armory Magnetic Chess set from Amazon.

– Teenagers aged 13 & up –

17. Decrypto 5th anniversary by Le Scorpion Masque

Describe the secret code

Image adapted from: TOYTAG

Decrypto puts one’s vocab skills to the test as teens try to give clues to their teammates. The word clues have to be precise enough for their teammates yet still vague enough to make sure their opponents don’t get the message.

Other than teamwork and communication skills, Decryto can develop critical thinking, strategic thinking, and language skills.

Price: $32

Get the Le Scorpion Masque Decrypto from TOYTAG.

18. 3D printing pen set by 3Doodler

Upgrade art from 2D drawings to 3D figures

Image adapted from: @3Doodler via Instagram

What better way to make art more exciting than to transform it into 3D form? The 3D Printing Pen works by heating and extruding a plastic filament that quickly cools, solidifying it into a stable structure. Teens can express their creativity by designing their own little projects or following stencils to build structures.

Price: $79.99

Get the 3Doodler 3D Printing Pen set from 3Doodler from Amazon.

19. Pagoda by True Genius

Brain teaser that puts your skills to the test

If you think that solving a Rubix cube is no kick, try the Pagoda puzzle by True Genius. Similar to a Rubix cube, the goal is to turn the sections of the Pagoda and shift the coloured balls until they are arranged into columns of the same colour.

This encourages spatial reasoning, logical thinking, problem-solving, and critical thinking.

Price: $23.11

Get the True Genius Pagoda puzzle from Amazon.

20. The Clearly Impossible Puzzle by CM Originals

Focus and persevere to solve this puzzle

Image adapted from: Amazon.sg

Unsurprisingly, every piece from The Clearly Impossible Puzzle is clear. As if that doesn’t make it challenging enough, there’s no way to well the front of the pieces from the back of them and there are some false-corner pieces to throw your teenager off.

On the plus side, it’ll teach your child critical thinking, problem-solving skills, patience, and immense focus.

Price: $24.04

Get the CM Originals Clearly Impossible Puzzle from Amazon.

Educational toys for children that are also fun

From building creativity with a 3D printing pen to learning about science through volcano kits, these toys make learning feel like play. So, whether you’re looking to inspire a young scientist, artist, or engineer, these educational toys are a great place to start. Plus, with so many exciting options, your kiddo will be entertained while gaining valuable knowledge that goes beyond the classroom.

For places to bring your kids to:

• Kid-friendly activities
• Free water playgrounds
• Hotels with kid’s clubs

Cover image adapted from: @3doodler via Instagram, Amazon.sg, aqua Dragons

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If you’re en route to university, I’m sure your seniors have mentioned the excitement that is campus life. Summer break is when hostel applications become a big hoo-ha, and if you’re feeling the confusion like I once did, here’s a NUS hall guide, from how to apply to what to pack for your move-in day.

The types of university halls at NUS

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There are 4 types of hostels for NUS students to choose from: Halls of Residence, Residential Colleges, Houses, and Student Residences.

What should I know before applying for university hall?

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Visit the hostels before applying for them. You’ll be living there for some time, so you should make sure you like the environment. Hostels usually organise open houses before the application window to take incoming freshmen on tours of the accommodations and facilities.

The tours are guided by current residents, so it’s the best time to ask them just about anything. If you’re still unsure about staying on campus, ask them for advice and get them to share their personal experiences. If you want to join specific CCAs, it’s also good to ask about the commitment levels and training schedules.

What can I expect from the different university halls?

Halls of residence

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NUS is home to 6 halls of residence. The most popular option among undergraduates, halls are best known for being community-driven and offering a vibrant range of CCAs, including sports, culture clubs, and committees.

Sadly, getting in as a freshman doesn’t guarantee a stay for the entirety of your university life, so chionging for CCAs is often essential for earning points to secure a spot for the following year. Each hall has different ways to collect points, but to be safe, we’d advise taking up at least 3-4 CCAs, preferably one with a leadership position.

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The layout of the rooms is similar across all halls: a single bed, table, wardrobe, and shelves. Fair warning, though, hall rooms are not air-conditioned. There are different blocks for each hall, and genders are sorted according to levels. For double rooms, strictly same-gender roommates are allowed. Don’t worry, though, communal toilets are available on every level.

Halls are also typically the more “happening” areas on campus. Be prepared for a super active social life. Block events, late-night study-turn-HTHT sessions, and spontaneous supper jios are the norm when living in hall. Many students consider these experiences to be the highlight of their university life.

Residential colleges

Ridge View Residential College.
Image credit: NUS OSA 

If you’re more of an introvert and just not cut out for too much of the rah-rah lifestyle, you may want to consider residential colleges (RCs). RCs require fewer commitments since you’re guaranteed a 2-year stay upon acceptance. They also focus more on community engagements and interest groups.

RCs are unique because residents must participate in academic pursuits according to each hostel’s theme. So, instead of earning points for hall, you’re expected to clear 5 modules in RCs. They are part of the University Town College Programme and can be used to replace general education modules, a university-level requirement. Yay to less workload!

But that doesn’t mean it’s any less fun. Although CCAs are not a requirement, RCs offer a bunch of activities for you to take part in. There are interest groups ranging from arts and sports to clubs and societies that welcome all residents to join.

Image screenshotted from: Ridge View Residential College via Youtube

RC rooms are pricier than halls as they are newer and have better facilities. All the rooms are single occupancy, with Ridge View Residential College (RVRC) being the only RC with double rooms. You can choose between an air-conditioned room or not – the former operates on a pay-as-you-use scheme. Like most campus accommodations, toilets are also communal on every level.

However, some of the RCs offer 6-bedroom apartments with 6 single rooms, a shared bathroom, and a common living area.

Houses

Image credit: NUS OSA

NUS houses are the way to go if academics are your number 1 priority and you’re planning to mug through your university years. The 3 houses offer a stress-free and non-competitive stay, as residents are not required to join CCAs or any study programmes.

The houses offer their own interest groups and community practices, so students have the option to take time off studying and spend time with peers. Priding themselves on a supportive community, freshmen can look forward to initiatives like the peer mentorship programme in Pioneer House or the coaching and mentoring scheme at Lighthouse.

Senior retention happens when you want to continue your stay the following year. It differs for each house, but the baseline is to participate and be involved during your 1-year stay here. The application process requires recommendations from 2 to 3 residents to vouch that you’re a valued community member.

Helix House single room.
Image credit: NUS OSA

The rooms here are simple and minimally decorated. They are all single rooms with the option of air conditioning. Once again, communal toilets and kitchenettes are located along the common corridors.

Student residences

Prince George’s Park Residences. 
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The 2 student residences on the NUS campus are reserved for undergraduates onwards from year 2; first-year students are not eligible to apply for a stay. Application processes tend to be competitive, with the bulk of residents being varsity, scholarship holders, and exchange students. So, do go for it if you have impressive co-curricular or academic records.

Hostel activities are optional, with a focus on community-building activities such as wellness sessions and group exercises. Generally, these accommodations offer more privacy and flexibility of schedules.

PGP’s type A room.
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There are 3 types of single rooms for Prince George’s Park Residence (PGP): Type A is an air-conditioned space with a private bathroom, while Type B is non-air-conditioned and equipped with a sink. Finally, Type C is a standard single room with air-conditioning options.

The layout of the 4-bedroom and studio apartments in UTown Residence is similar to typical Singapore flats, with a common living area, kitchen space, and bathroom. These rooms are ideal for graduate students or married couples taking their master’s or PhD.

Compulsory meal plans

All residents staying in halls and RCs are subject to compulsory meal plans. The subscription offers 6 days’ worth of breakfast and dinner with halal, non-halal, and vegetarian options across different cuisines.

*Rates are accurate as of AY24/25 Semester 1.

Left: Raffles Hall breakfast, Right: CAPT dinner.
Image adapted from: Kelly Lai, Melden Koh

The meal plans in RCs are more expensive as the food is of a wider variety and better quality. Meals in the hall are usually limited to 1 or 2 options, while RC’s dining hall serves different cuisines across Western, Chinese, and Malay. We broke it down, and each meal averages around $3-$5. This saves you a ton of money compared to eating out, so there’s really not much to complain about.

There are tons of mixed reviews about the taste of the food. Many of my male friends compared it to the meals they had during their National Service, but to each their own. From personal experience, the hall food was alright. It was on the saltier side, but nothing bad or crazy.

How & when do I apply to stay on the NUS campus?

Students can apply for a hostel stay via the UHMS student portal with their student ID. Only full-time students registered with NUS are eligible. International students who hold ICA or MOM-approved passes during their hostel stay are also eligible for a spot. 

The registration dates differ each year, but applications for Semester 1 are usually due in March for undergraduates. However, applying to hall as an undergraduate may be trickier since slots are mainly open for freshmen. Having NUS co-curricular activity (CCA) records and achievements may aid your chances of getting accepted.

First-year students can start applying to halls and houses from June to July. Freshmen have higher chances of getting a stay, but each hostel has its own culture or specific criteria they look out for. For instance, some halls prioritise those who play sports or have a dance background.

Residential Colleges (RCs) are only open to freshmen and have an earlier application period from March to April. You must apply for the Joint Residential College Admission System, and you can state your preferred RC, where you’ll then be required to write an essay before being shortlisted for an interview.

Semester 2 applications are a shorter process in November, and are open to all undergraduates.

What university camps should I join?

Now, there are so many different camp names floating around that you might need help to wrap your head around which ones to join. I’ve been there, and it gets overwhelming, especially if you’re a freshman. For hostels, the 2 main types are the engagement camps and orientation camps.

Engagement camps

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Engagement camps are more for halls and are held during the application period in early June. They last 2-3 days and are meant for freshies to have a glimpse of hall life. You get to experience different cultures and mingle with seniors, which can be helpful if you’re still unsure or torn between the different halls.

Some halls’ engagement camp dates may clash, so attend your first choice. Each hall’s Instagram page usually provides regular updates about its sign-up links, which typically open around mid-May.

Orientation camps

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Orientation camps happen after you are accepted into the hostels. They are meant to help freshmen move into their new homes, so join them if you can! Usually held a week before the semester starts, these camps are the best way to familiarise yourself with the hall facilities and meet fellow residential mates or seniors from the same course.

Rag & Flag

One of the most popular events in NUS is Rag & Flag. The annual event, an important aspect of the freshmen orientation program, is a charity project that encourages the student community to help the less privileged. Flag is one of the largest university fundraisers in Singapore, and Rag – which stands for Receiving and Giving –  encompasses live performances to thank everyone for their fundraising efforts.

Every faculty and hall has its Rag & Flag run by undergraduate student committees. Freshmen can either join Flag or any of the 3 categories in Rag: dance, costumes, and floats. Be aware that the programme requires high-commitment, with dance practices or costumes and prop-making sessions spanning 2-3 months throughout the summer.

Sign-ups start around early June. Joining Rag & Flag is one way of interacting with seniors or already residents, and having them vouch for you during the selection process helps increase your chances of securing a stay at one of the NUS halls.

Making friends in hall

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Don’t fret about making friends when you’re on campus. The shared spaces and close proximity to fellow students will make it easy for you to form new friendships. Even if you’re not the most outgoing, a simple chit-chat with your neighbours or floor mates can lead to lasting connections.

The other way to increase interactions is to participate in activities or join clubs that spark your interest. Events such as night cycling and inter-block games are held during the first semester and offer great bonding sessions to find like-minded friends.

We also recommend going for block events. The block committees organise regular themed nights with fun activities and free food. Who’s saying no to that?

What should I pack to move in university hall?

Raffles Hall double room.
Image credit: Kelly Lai

Instead of lugging all your suitcases with you, just pack the bare essentials on move-in day and save the fairy lights and posters for another trip; you have the whole semester to move in anyway.

Most importantly, make sure you have cleaning supplies on hand. The rooms are usually quite dusty and will require a thorough deep clean, so bring pails, disinfectant wipes, and rags. Having a mop or handheld cordless vacuum is also a lifesaver.

For toiletries, store all your bathing essentials in a shower basket. The communal toilets have cabinets, so you can chope a spot for your basket so you won’t have to carry it in and out of your room. Bring a pair of slippers you won’t mind getting wet so you can wear them into the shower.

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Building a capsule wardrobe is a game changer when staying in a hall. Play around with basic pieces so you won’t have to bring your entire wardrobe from home with you. I’d recommend at least a week’s worth of clothes to save yourself a laundry trip.

Speaking of laundry, the washing machines have a “pay when you need” system, priced from $1 per cycle. Have a basket to chug all your dirty clothes in one place and also detergent, duh. Optionally, you can also bring a drying rack, but most hostels have dryers to save you the hassle of hanging your wet laundry.

Other miscellaneous items that are good to have are:

• A mini trash can
• Containers to dabao food
• A diffuser to keep your room smelling fresh
• Insect repellent

Lastly, most halls and RCs are not air-conditioned, so you may want to get a desk fan or portable aircon – just be sure to declare it. You can find them for cheap on Carousell.

Is staying in a university hall at NUS worth it?

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If you’re still deciding on whether staying on campus is for you, here are some pros and cons you may want to consider.

Pros of staying in university hall

1. Staying on campus saves on travelling time – especially sweet if you have classes in the early mornings. It also makes sense to opt for hall if your house is far from NUS. You’ll be able to get to class in 15 minutes or less, which means you get more much-needed rest.
2. Staying on campus opens up a world of social opportunities. You’ll be able to build friendships and create unforgettable memories before stepping into the professional world after graduation.
3. You get to save up on your meals. The meal plans are rather filling, and you can even dabao breakfast for lunch sometimes if you’re really trying to get the most bang for your buck. For houses and student residences, the PGP canteen also offers meals ranging from $4 to $5.
4. Staying with others improves connections, especially with seniors in the same courses. They’re the ones to turn to for academic help or general matters, such as planning for internship or overseas exchange.  

Cons of staying in university hall

1. An obvious one is the time you’re spending away from your family. Because of the convenience that is a campus stay, you’ll usually only be home during the weekends.
2. The high commitment to hall life makes it easy to get consumed by all the activities, and some may find it a struggle to balance academics and hall commitments. Here’s some tips from previous hall-stayers:
   • Head to study spots around the school instead of studying in the room. You’ll be away from friends or any ongoing events, AKA lesser distractions.
   • Make breakfast plans with friends so there’s some accountability. This motivates you to get up early and ensures you won’t sleep through your alarms and miss any lessons.
3. Hostel stays can get pricey depending on the rooms you choose, and they are an additional fare on top of your school fees. The rates have also increased throughout the years, but students can apply for financial aid or scholarships to ease the financial burdens.
4. Lastly, if you opt for a shared room, there’s no guarantee you’ll get a good roommate and so it’s up to you to decide how much of an adjustment you’re willing to make.

Know which university hall is best for you

Circumstances play a part, so if you’re looking at long commuting hours or a jam-packed timetable, university halls might be a good option. Otherwise, staying on campus adds to the already exciting university life NUS has to offer, and is one of the best ways to forge long-lasting friendships.

For more NUS reads:

• Guide to NUS for freshies
• NUS hacks
• Choosing a uni in SG

Cover image adapted from: UTown Residence via Facebook, @krasheares.rag via Instagram

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If you really think about it, our experiences studying at preschools in Singapore had the potential to shape us to become the people we are today. However, our infant selves simply went through the motions of sitting in for the classes our teachers prepared for us. Now that we’re all grown up, we might wonder what the rationale was behind some of the preschool activities that filled our days as kids.

So, we’ve consulted Ms Ainul Farhana Binti Mohamed Bathurudin, Lead Principal Project Specialist, Early Years, on the hidden meanings behind every Singaporean kid’s preschool experience. Consider your curiosity quelled, even more so if you’re a parent whose little one is still well in the midst of making their first friends in their playgroup.

1. Mandatory afternoon naps after lunch

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As working adults, we probably miss this one the most. Yes, could you believe that we once protested against taking afternoon naps in preschool? Grown-up grievances aside, these midday snooze sessions ensure that the children are well-rested, so they can better process and retain new information in their developing minds.

Afternoon naps also help with enhancing concentration and attention span for the latter part of the day, while fostering a calmer and more focused learning disposition. As for the teachers, this quiet time also allows educators to recharge and prepare for the rest of the day ahead.

2. Cooking activities like making sandwiches or pizza

Cooking activities impart the values of teamwork and patience, as well as the ability to follow instructions.

Not all of us are destined to step on that MasterChef Junior podium, but nothing stopped us from turning into adventurous culinary artists during the cooking activities back in preschool. For one, I remember whipping up a mean egg mayo sandwich back in the day, but there’s a reason why our preschool teachers let us don a chef’s hat and apron from time to time.

Working with food makes learning fun and interactive; plus, mixing, pouring, and measuring ingredients boost fine motor skills and introduce basic math concepts too. Healthy eating habits can also be taught in the process, and since cooking is such a sensory adventure, it’ll get children to be more receptive to exploring new tastes, smells, and textures.

3. Doing different arts & craft activities like painting & paper crafts

Image credit: My First Skool

Probably one of the highlights of every kid’s preschool experience was the various arts and crafts lessons that we got oh-so-messy with. If we were lucky enough, our parents even recognised the abstract beauty in our doodles and scrawls, and pinned them up on our household’s fridge à la the Louvre’s Mona Lisa.

Arts and craft projects are avenues that spark a child’s creativity and serve as a medium to build upon fine motor and problem-solving skills. Apart from cultivating self-expression, these sessions can also provide opportunities for children to develop essential social skills and teamwork when they join hands for collaborative art activities.

4. Celebrating holidays like Mid-Autumn Festival & National Day

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National holidays were particularly special as a kid in preschool as you got to celebrate them with your best mates, and have a whale of a time doing so. But beyond the games and dressing up, these festive get-togethers provide opportune moments for children to immerse themselves in new cultures and interact with peers of various age groups.

It’s a great way for little ones to learn about different traditions, potentially giving a child their first brush with cultural awareness, in the melting pot of a nation that is Singapore. These celebrations help them to feel part of an inclusive community, as they foster a love for learning about our multicultural society.

5. Bringing your favourite toy to school for Show and Tell

Image credit: My First Skool

As an introvert, Show and Tell sessions were the bane of my existence even as a kid. But after mustering up the courage to speak up, most of us probably realised it wasn’t all too bad. These spotlight-shining moments instil within a child self-confidence, but also a sense of connection between their home and school environments.

The activity provides a stage for little ones to share a part of their personal world with their classmates, which enhances self-expression and storytelling skills. On the other hand, it also teaches kids empathy and to lend a listening ear, while promoting a sense of community in the classroom as they learn about their peers’ diverse life experiences and interests.

6. Celebrating birthday parties in class

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Another limelight-stealing occasion, birthday parties are also often celebrated in preschools, but not everything’s about passing around slices of cake and tearing open goodie bags. These joyous occasions provide emotional assurance and recognition of each child’s uniqueness.

Sing-alongs, coupled with thoughtful cards filled with heartfelt messages, ensure that every kid feels extra special and cherished on their big day. Themes of kindness, sharing joy, and appreciating one another are also floated around, making school a warm and welcoming place for everyone.

7. Heading outdoors for some fun at the nearby playground

Image credit: My First Skool

When you’re looking after a bunch of energetic little ones, heading outdoors for some fun in the sun is a good way to burn off some of that extra energy. More often than not, the preschool’s nearby playground became stomping grounds for the lively children. Time spent outside the classroom has proven to be a mood bolster and helps them unwind while keeping them focused.

Playing outdoors also keeps otherwise sedentary iPad kids active, builds strength, and improves hand-eye coordination. Additionally, it gives them a chance to make new friends and build important social skills while they scamper all over the place exploring the neighbourhood.

8. Taking part in music and movement activities

Image credit: My First Skool

If you rummage hard enough, you’ll eventually unearth pictures, or heaven forbid, tapes of your preschool graduation taken aeons ago, stashed away in the depths of your family archives. For some reason, we were tasked with wowing our parents with dance performances or musical acts during our graduation ceremonies; no exceptions for even those with two left feet.

But that’s the beauty of being in preschool; you aren’t expected to bust out moves like Jagger. From dancing to their own beat to coming up with their own catchy tunes and rhythms, these music and movement activities offer an enjoyable avenue for kids to express their emotions and build upon social and motor skills. Plus, music and movement activities allow children to be creative and gain confidence in being in front of a large audience.

9. Inviting parents to school for story time or a classroom activity

Image credit: My First Skool

Mums and dads who take the time out of their hectic schedules to turn up to parent-child bonding sessions at their child’s preschool are truly the real MVPs. Their presence at these activities deepens the bond between parents and children, turning everyday classes into memorable experiences.

As parents get involved, they help their little ones shine socially, nurture their emotional growth, and build a love for learning. These special occasions also create lasting memories and strengthen the link between families and the school community.

10. Enjoying mealtime alongside peers

Image credit: My First Skool

Nothing brings people together like good food, and preschools in Singapore undoubtedly subscribe to that notion. Although wolfing down on nutritious yet yummy meals is important to provide sustenance for a child’s developing body, having meals with peers comes with intangible benefits too.

Firstly, it provides children with a chance to pay attention to social cues, and to learn to do simple things on their own such as serving food, filling up cups with water, returning their cutlery, and cleaning after themselves.

As the children mingle amongst themselves, they also build emotional connections with one another, creating a warm and inclusive community where every child feels like they belong.

11. Growing your own harvest during gardening activities

Image credit: My First Skool

Just ask any kid: when it comes to piquing interest in science-y stuff, hands-on activities trump learning about things theoretically in a classroom. That’s why gardening-related activities are often incorporated into a preschooler’s curriculum, unlocking a world of wonder and discovery for young minds.

From planting seeds to watching their very own garden bloom to life, this engaging activity teaches kids about responsibility as they take charge of cultivating plants under their care. Gardening also deepens their appreciation for healthy foods and the environment, as they grow their curiosity and connection to the ever-changing world around them.

Recognising our preschool educators’ efforts & professionalism

It’s easy to fall under the misconception that all preschool teachers do is to entertain groups of children for a bit till their parents come to pick them up at the end of the day. However, once you dig a little deeper, they do so much more than that in ensuring that our childhood stands out as a fruitful, yet memorable time of our lives where we start learning important life skills too.

As such, it’s never too late to say thanks to our early childhood educators, be it reconnecting with one that taught you ages ago, or expressing gratitude to your kid’s preschool teacher the next time you pick your little one up from school. After all, a simple “thank you” goes a long way, especially when it comes to recognising the effort and dedication they put in their work every day.

Learn more about becoming an early childhood educator

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The last thing uni students need to worry about is forking out more money for pricey apps and software on top of their tuition fees and other expenses. Thankfully, there are plenty of free software and alternatives to popular paid apps that you can use to your advantage.

From efficient citation tools so your essays are always on point to a superior spell check that even most of us at TheSmartLocal use daily, here are seven free apps that all uni students can download before the first day of classes start.

How to make the most use of your benefits as a university student

Staying in school does have its perks. For one, many places offer student card discounts when you flash your registered school ID at F&B outlets and selected retailers. Movie theatres in Singapore all offer concession prices on tickets, Singapore Airlines offers 10% off flights, and Apple also has back-to-school bundles on their iPads and laptops for students.

If you have an active email ending in .edu, you can also score cheaper subscriptions for apps like Spotify, and Adobe Creative Cloud.

– Basic Office Tools –

1. Grammarly

A higher-level spell check that spots grammar mistakes

Screenshot from: Grammarly

I can’t count the number of times Grammarly came in clutch as I churned out essay after essay during hell week. The handy writing assistant would spot some of my most egregious grammar and spelling mistakes that the default spell check just ignored.

As I spent most of my time on Google Docs, the Grammarly Chrome browser extension worked best for me. However, it also works on Microsoft Word and as a desktop app. If you would rather not download anything, you can also run it on your browser once you’ve signed up with them.

Get Grammarly.

2. LibreOffice

Open-source suite for Word docs & Excel sheets

Screenshot from: LibreOffice

If your university doesn’t offer Microsoft Office for free, a good alternative you can download is LibreOffice. The suite of apps is fully compatible with all types of documents that Microsoft Office already handles, just that they do it under different names: Writer for word processing, Calc for your spreadsheets, and Impress for all your PowerPoint presentations.

LibreOffice can be installed on Windows, Mac, and Linux, so you don’t need to worry about any compatibility issues.

Get LibreOffice.

3. Prezi

Trust us, nobody wants to sit through a PowerPoint presentation that has hundreds of words on a single slide. Adding an image may help a little, but if you want your audience to stay captivated, try out Prezi.

They have hundreds of templates to create engaging slideshows that use a zoom-in-zoom-out to hone into subtopics, so you can skip around in your presentation without having to search for specific slides.

Get Prezi.

– Reference Management –

4. Zotero

Cite & organise your essay research more efficiently

Screenshot from: Zotero

No one prepares you for the number of citations you have to do for your research essays, and you can save yourself the headache of rushing out your references at the final minute with Zotero. The Zotero browser extension will create a citation of the webpage you’re referencing with a single click, which can then be exported as a proper citation in over 9,000 styles. It’s available for Google Chrome, Firefox, and Microsoft Edge.

Get Zotero.

5. Mendeley

Intuitive citation manager for Chrome & Safari users

Screenshot from: Mendeley

Those who spend their days on Google Chrome and Safari instead can use Mendeley, another powerful citation management tool. It boasts plenty of intuitive features including a single-click citation importer.

If you’re using Microsoft Word, you just have to download Mendeley Cite to quickly put references into your document from your library of citations.

Get Mendeley.

– Image & Video Editing –

6. Diagrams.net

Easy tool for building diagrams

Screenshot from Diagrams.net

Unless your school has bought Photoshop for the entire cohort, chances are you’re looking for a free alternative for all your diagramming needs. Enter Diagrams.net, a free and open-source tool you can use to create anything from graphs, charts, and even infographics.

While there is an easy-to-use browser version, downloading the app so you can use it without Wi-Fi is a better experience.

Get Diagrams.net.

7. Inkscape

Design software to make vectors & Illustrator alternative

Screenshot from: Inkscape

Those who need to make graphics for an assignment can turn to Inkscape instead of paying for a subscription to Adobe Illustrator. The free and open-source vector graphics editor lets you design anything from logos to banners at an unlimited resolution, so your printouts can be crystal clear with no pixelation.

If you’re not familiar with the user interface, fret not – there are many official tutorials available to guide you through the various features from bitmap tracing to calligraphy.

Get Inkscape.

8. SketchUp

Online 3D modelling software that you don’t need to download

Screenshot from: SketchUp

Once you get to the varsity level, art classes would require more than just your pen, pencil, and eraser. Students working on interior design, architecture, and other projects that need sketches can use SketchUp, a free web-based app that lets you create 3D models.

The simplicity of the app is what makes it stand out compared to other more expensive and popular alternatives like Revit and Fusion 360.

Get SketchupFree.

9. GitHub Student Developer Pack

Complimentary access to pro versions of Canva & Typeform

Screenshot from: Canva

In case you didn’t already know, your student email account gets you access to a ton of freebies courtesy of GitHub, including 12 months of Canva Pro (worth $165) so you can impress your profs with your presentation slides and one year of Typeform’s professional plan (worth over $795) to make all the fancy-looking surveys.

Check out the GitHub Student Developer Pack.

– Note-Taking & Productivity –

10. Notion

Track progress for each course you’re enrolled in

Back when I was a student, you’d bring multiple notebooks to school – one for each of the subjects you’re taking. Now, all you need is to download Notion, a desktop organiser and unlimited notebooks rolled into one. Their student planner is useful for keeping track of course syllabi, assignments and test dates, as well as any other notes you might have for each class.

Screenshot from: Notion

Tip: Use Notion AI to help with study guides. You can ask it to sieve through all your notes to pick up keywords and definitions, and even make a flowchart to help you understand study material better.

Get Notion.

11. KardsAI

Create flashcards from your own notes

Remember the good old days of flashcards when you were a kid? They’re great for revising for exams that require you to know many definitions, formulas, or key events and dates. Creating them on your own can be quite troublesome, especially if you have hundreds of keywords to run through.

Image adapted from: KardsAI

But this is where KardsAI comes in handy – simply upload your notes in PDF format, and the app will automatically pull out pointers for you to study. In some cases, you don’t even need your own notes to create your own stack of flashcards. Say you’re learning a new language; just let KardsAI know what vocabulary words you want to learn and the app will create a list in just a tap of a button.

Get KardsAI.

12. Padlet

Collaborative note-taking bulletin board with friends

Teamwork makes the dream work with Padlet, which allows an unlimited number of collaborators to add notes together onto a digital bulletin board. Use this for brainstorming ideas for group projects, catalogue research references, or build a kanban board to keep track of multiple projects at once.

Screenshot from: Padlet

Apart from text and images, you can add in links and videos on each bulletin board you create. If you’re looking for the freedom drawing and collaging that paper brings, use the Sandbox function. It’ll allow you to freely move any elements, such as text, images, and even drawings without having to stick to a grid.

Get Padlet.

Best free software downloads for students

Gone are the days where you can just breeze through a school semester with just a pen and some paper. The right apps and software can make surviving your college years a smoother and stress-free experience. Your bank account also won’t be in the red as much because these apps here are all free of charge with no strings attached.

Check out our similar articles for students:

• Best laptops for students
• Healthcare scholarships in Singapore
• Pro tips to balance work and studies
• Productivity apps to avoid distractions

Cover image adapted from: Canva, Notion
Originally published on 26th July 2021. Last updated by Raewyn Koh on 5th August 2024.

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Ghouls and monsters in the cupboard were things my younger self was deathly afraid of. 

In my teenage years, thanks to a biology teacher who screened a full-frontal video of a woman giving birth to scare us from having premarital sex, childbirth became my worst nightmare. That, and episiotomies a.k.a. the cutting of your delicate regions with a pair of freaking scissors!

Even while celebrating my first pregnancy, the impending reality of a child exploding out of my lady part was something that kept me up most nights in my final trimester. Doctors casually told me that my vagina was going to expand to a grand 10CM and my baby would come out… but mi no comprende.

I was reassured that pain relief did exist, and the strongest magic that would numb me from the waist down was an epidural.

Note: Everyone’s pain threshold is different, but here’s what it felt like for this mother.

Read more pregnancy content here: 

• Guide to having a baby in Singapore
• Getting pregnant at 30 & why my first feeling wasn’t joy
• Breaking confinement rules

What is an epidural?

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Now, if you’re pregnant or have pregnant friends, you’ll probably have heard of the wonders of an epidural. A nifty little jab to the spine that takes away all pain, giving you barely any sensation in the lower half of your body. As with all medication, it does come with its own set of risks. 

Most common side effects:

• Fever
• Shivering
• Low blood pressure
• Backaches and soreness
• Nausea and vomiting
• Inability to walk for a period of time after
• Difficulty urinating

Hella rare, but deadly side effects: 

• Permanent nerve damage
• Seizures
• Difficulty breathing
• Death

Full list of side effects here + study on the side effects of epidural here. 

Research also unearthed the opinions of doulas who witnessed how epidurals interfered with the body’s natural response to labour.

Just for funsies, here’s how long and thick an epidural needle is.
Image credit: babycenter

Naturally, after all this info from Doctor Google, alarm bells were ringing in the head of my kiasi self, and I was determined to tahan the pain and not subject myself to any of the possible side effects.

Unsuccessful unmedicated birth with my first child

Suffering from the pitocin-induced contractions
Image credit: Kimberly Wong

Despite my grand plans for an unmedicated birth, all resolve went out the window some 12 hours into my induced labour with my firstborn, Ellie. The sheer pain from the contractions and the nausea that came from the laughing gas was too much for me to handle, and I caved and begged my doctor to give me the epidural stat.

If you’re interested to know what the last part of active labor feels like while on epidural, it feels like the very mild churning of a stomach ache after eating a McSpicy. It felt like I was taking a painless poop, and that poop turned out to be my baby. 

Even though my drug-free birth plan fell through, I was glad to have not felt the legendary “ring of fire” – the exact moment your baby’s head becomes visible from down there. Epidural was awesome – or so I thought until I started shivering and vomiting uncontrollably for the next two hours.

The nausea and retching was so bad, I couldn’t even hold or breastfeed my baby because the minute they placed her on my chest, I yelled for them to take her away and give me a bag because I was going to hurl.

What natural birth with no epidural feels like

To be very honest, with my second child, I was not confident in my ability to endure the full pain of childbirth a second time around because I’d already failed once. But I didn’t want to have to suffer the side effects of the epidural once more.

Perhaps it was the second-baby-faster-birth phenomenon, or the fact that I just die die didn’t want to get induced for a second time; but labour with my second child was manageable for the most part. Pain level was around 5/10 for 4 hours, but shot through the roof as my body went through the transition – where your vagina dilates from 7CM to 10CM.

When I did finally beg for the epidural, the midwife on duty told me that my baby was crowning and it was too late for that.

The only pain relief I did rely on was laughing gas (nitrous oxide). And no, the gas won’t make you laugh, but it does make you feel intoxicated and “high”. I still felt all the pain from each contraction, but it was as though my brain only registered the pain five seconds later.

What active labour felt like: painful period cramps x 100. It was pretty excruciating, NGL. I easily classify it as the most pain I’ve ever experienced in my life.

I writhed in the bed and bashed my head on the protective rail to cope with the pain but nothing helped. At one point between breaths of laughing gas, I thought I’d died, only for the next contraction to remind me that this reality was not yet over.

The moment I got to hold my son after a 6-hour labour with no epidural
Image credit: Kimberly Wong

After what felt like an eternity, my water bag exploded as my baby crowned. I couldn’t distinguish the pain of my contractions from the ring of fire, but I did feel the exact moment my baby and placenta exited my body.

The pain stopped almost immediately, though I kept shaking for a good five minutes from sheer exhaustion and possibly trauma. Though tired, my body didn’t feel as bad as it did after birth with an epidural. There was no nausea or vomiting. I felt alert and ready to take care of my baby.

Giving birth without epidural

Image credit: Kimberly Wong

Would I give birth without epidural again? Yes, letting nature take its course and feeling my body do what it was meant to do was a terribly painful, yet amazing experience. I now have a great deal of respect for my own grandmother who birthed 10 children without any pain medication whatsoever – that’s the real definition of bad-ass.

Out of sheer curiosity, I scouted around for other mothers who also went the no-epidural route to see if childbirth was universally one of the worst pains imaginable, or if my pain tolerance was just crappy. Here’s how other mothers describe it:

“First birth: Like period cramps. Really bad period cramps; but something I was used to. Second birth: Like a demon monster ripping through my downstairs.” – Stephanie, 36

“Labour was super manageable and got easier with each kid. What was worse is getting a hematoma during delivery and having my (other) child kick me in the stitches two days after delivery. Worst pain of my life.” – Amanda, 32

“Like a bad tummy ache” – Wendy, 49

Before you swear off reproducing forever, know that everyone’s pain threshold is different. And there’s no shame in requesting for pain relief, after all, that’s why it was invented!

Read more of our motherhood articles here: 

• Pregnant during Covid-19
• Pumping on the go as a working mum of two
• Best breast pumps in Singapore

Cover image adapted from: Kimberly Wong
Originally published on 8th May 2021.

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My mother was a tiger parent. In our home, she was the autocrat. Her rules were simple: it was her way or the highway, and there were no questions about that. From the early age of three, I learnt that if I whined or threw a fit like other children did at a toy store, I’d be sorely disciplined. And punishment came in the form of caning.

Punishment followed any bad behaviour, whether it was creating messes, watching too much TV, or scoring anything short of an A where grades were concerned. But while my mother wore the badge of a tiger parent, I knew her high expectations and no-nonsense demeanour came from a place of love. She’d usually sit us down an hour after caning us to explain her actions and tell us that she wanted the best for us. 

My brothers and I emerged from that tough love with good moral compasses. Moreover, her form of discipline became so ingrained in me that even before I had children of my own, I proudly told my friends that I’d use the rotan (cane) too.

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Resorting to negative reinforcement as a parent myself

It wasn’t until my daughter’s second birthday that I found myself struggling with discipline. I’d read a tonne of content on how to deal with the terrible twos, the threenagers, and the bleeping fours; but actually coming face to face with temper tantrums was a whole different ball game.

In a blink of an eye, everything my toddler used to do with a smile on her face became her worst nightmare. Even things as simple as taking a bath or leaving the house would result in a full-on meltdown complete with kicking, screaming and a lot of writhing on the floor. 

I tried my best to channel my inner zen, but still found myself morphing into that tiger parent whenever my daughter screamed “I DON’T WANT” and “NOOOOO”. 

I tried cajoling, asking politely, negotiating – nothing seemed to work. So I gave into my frustrations and resorted to threatening and spanking. I felt as if I’d been backed into a corner where only ultimatums and fear worked to get my toddler to listen to basic instructions.

Yet after every explosive outburst, I found myself riddled with guilt. While the punishment worked to build obedience, I hated the tiger mother I was becoming.

Afraid of the consequences of tiger parenting

I was bogged down with work with a 1-year-old in tow. Physical exhaustion taking care of two kids was one thing, but mental exhaustion really pushed me to my limits. I needed a solution to my toddler drama, and I needed one stat. 

At the core of it all, I was well aware of the socio-emotional side effects that came with the tiger parenting method – anxiety, self-esteem issues, the strain put on our relationship during the growing-up years, and perhaps worst of all, depression and aggressive tendencies as an adult. I didn’t want those consequences for my children.

When I was offered the chance to read the early release of a parenting book titled Respectful Parenting published by EtonHouse Community Fund, needless to say, I dove right in.

Respectful parenting – Trying it for 1 week

Image credit: ECF

It might be natural to think that asking your children to do something nicely falls under the umbrella of respectful parenting, but true respectful parenting focuses on teaching parents how to build a relationship with their children based on mutual respect and love. 

At 100-pages-long, the book also incorporates strategies and real-life examples for hopeless parents such as myself to navigate the turbulent waters of toddler-hood. 

In a nutshell, Respectful Parenting was about: 

• Understanding the root triggers behind tantrums and meltdowns
• Respecting your child’s decisions and feelings as an individual
• Helping your child process difficult and big feelings
• Establishing realistic boundaries and expectations to help you manage difficult situations like picky eating

Picky eating, refusing naps, general defiance, unsolicited tantrums – all those fit on my toddler’s resume, and so my week-long experiment with respectful parenting began.

Correcting bad behaviour without demanding an apology

Every time my 3-year-old daughter did what I considered to be “a bad thing”, the knee-jerk reaction from me was to get an apology out of her. Depending on the severity of the situation, I yelled. After all, that was the treatment I’d gotten as a child.

My first go at respectful parenting came when she shoved her baby brother to the ground after he destroyed the magnatile tower she’d built. I felt frustration and some anger well up inside me, but keeping calm was key here.

I’d yelled at her countless times for getting physical with her brother, but all that reprimanding didn’t work to lessen the frequency of the act. The book called for parents to respect temper tantrums, citing “lack of acknowledgement” and “their needs not being heard and validated” as the root cause.

She’d usually glare at me angrily with crossed arms before kicking and screaming, but this time round she said, “He broke my beautiful castle. I don’t like it when he comes here.” Hearing her say that this time helped me look at the situation from her perspective.

For a 3-year-old, putting together the castle must’ve brought her immense pride and joy. I pictured myself in a situation of similar magnitude by imagining accidentally deleting a few weeks’ worth of work. It did leave a bitter taste in my mouth.

It didn’t help that on top of disregarding her feelings, I’d usually tell her that her behaviour was bad and then give my son more attention. This time, I uttered “I’m so sorry he did that, let’s build it again. I’ll help you.”

Which, to my surprise, elicited a positive response – “Okay, let’s rebuild it. You can help me.” – and no further drama. There was no “sorry” to close the case, but it did open my eyes to the problem of forcing her to apologise. 

Not only were my previous methods teaching her that it was okay to do bad things if one says sorry, but it didn’t help her empathise with others or feel actual remorse for her actions.

Overcoming her refusal of naps and bedtime

Naps have long been a cause of stress for me because I can never be sure if I will successfully get my toddler to take her nap. I did have a routine in place: outdoor play in the mornings, lunch and indoor play at noon, showertime, then a nap between 1-3pm. But every time naptime rolled around, she would do everything but rest.

The same pattern ensued at bedtime. It was as though “It’s time to sleep” was a trigger word for a total meltdown. So I heeded the book’s advice: carve out quality time before naps and bedtime.

The book assumed that children acted out before sleeping because they craved quality time with their parents. I was to implement a bedtime routine that would ensure my daughter got my undivided attention for a set period of time to help fill her parental love cup before heading off to dreamland.

The new routine meant that past 7.30PM, work took a backseat. We’d have a shower, brush her teeth, drink a glass of milk, read two to three storybooks of her choice, then head into the room to lie down. Surprisingly enough, this trick worked like a charm almost immediately. There was no more whining, crying or hiding under furniture. It did take her another 15-20 minutes to drift off to sleep, but she no longer disliked the idea of sleeping. Win!

Getting her to eat her meals

It was sometime around my daughter’s third birthday that she started to reject her meals. Almost overnight, the vegetables she loved eating, she hated with newfound passion. No matter what we’d put on the table, unless it was a plate of fruits or a snack, she’d look at it with disgust. We’d bribe her with cartoons to take her mind off the food, but getting her to swallow was the next hurdle.

With not much to lose, I tried the respectful parenting direction of respecting your child’s choices. This meant that if she wasn’t in the mood for broccoli, I’d respect that and cook it again some other time. If she takes two bites and taps out of mealtime, I should celebrate her managing two bites instead of criticising her for not finishing her food.

I had to also negotiate a set amount of time for each meal and stick to it. So we both agreed that meals shouldn’t take longer than 30 minutes.

The hardest part about implementing respectful parenting here was relinquishing the control I had over every aspect of her infant life. She was growing into her own person, and I needed to respect the habits and quirks she adopted along the way.

At the beginning of trial week, she would barely touch the lunches and dinners I set in front of her claiming she was full. And there was nothing I could do about the situation but accept that she was.

But over the course of the next few days, I slowly found the helicopter parent in me letting go. Some meals were a win and others not so, but there were definite improvements. While it still is a work in progress, we did manage to trade tablet time during meals for conversation – a good habit recommended by the book.

Respectful parenting: Did it work for me?

Although it’s only been a week since I’ve started applying the rules of respectful parenting in my life, I’m realising that communicating with my toddler isn’t as much of a struggle as it used to be. Sure there were still meltdowns in that week, but I had better means to defuse that ticking time bomb now.

As with all parenting approaches, consistency is the key to effect long-term, positive change. But it was heartening to be able to see positive changes in my toddler’s behaviour in a matter of days, just by putting into effect some of the book’s teachings.

It helped me take a step back to analyse the root cause of her emotions, and respect her feelings in all situations. I also discovered that the shortage of attention she’d been receiving as a result of welcoming a new sibling was also a factor that attributed to her frequent tantrums.

It’ll definitely take more time to completely rid myself of that sleeping tiger mom inside me, but it’s safe to say that respecting my child’s decisions as an individual has helped me understand that my toddler doesn’t have to be perfect, and that’s okay. She has her own unique set of quirks, and I shouldn’t force my mindset or method of doing things on her the way my mother did me.

Nipping those explosive episodes in the bud has made life a lot less stressful for both mother and child.

It doesn’t take experience for one to know that parenthood comes with its share of trials and tribulations. And if you’re struggling to deal with all the crazy that comes with the toddler years, you might want to add Respectful Parenting, a new book put together by early childhood expert Dr Tina Stephenson-Chin and the EtonHouse Community Fund (ECF) to your reading list. 

Not only did I appreciate that this book was written with Asian parenting styles in mind, I found the personal reflections after each chapter to be extremely relatable. Proof that with continued efforts, respectful parenting can remove the need for negative reinforcement altogether.

Whether you’re having a hard time getting your child to stick to a bedtime routine or getting your child to listen and obey, Respectful Parenting is a good starting point for any parent looking to rejig their parenting approach and build a better relationship with their children for the long haul.

As the book is published by ECF (Facebook | Instagram), an independent IPC charity, all proceeds from the book go to charity to help vulnerable children in Singapore. You’ll also be able to shave off 25% of the cost price with the following code “TSL25” when you preorder it at the link below.

Preorder Respectful Parenting by ECF here

This post was brought to you by EtonHouse Community Fund (ECF).
All illustrations by Ra Krishnan.
Originally published on 10th September 2021.

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So you’ve recently welcomed a baby to your family, and are adjusting to life as a new parent. You’ve gotten used to the lack of sleep and can now change diapers blindfolded. Now here you are at yet another crossroad in child-rearing: selecting a childcare centre in Singapore.

We get it – it’s a daunting task. After all, every parent wants to ensure their child is receiving the best possible care. Well, here’s everything you need to know about childcare in Singapore – including the costs, how to choose the right one, and what to expect.

Is childcare compulsory in Singapore? 

Given that Singapore is known to be rather academically-driven, you might be surprised to know that childcare and preschool is not compulsory in Singapore. Only primary and secondary education is compulsory for children aged 7-16.

However, many parents choose to send their kids for childcare for a myriad of reasons. This could be anything from having no alternative care options, to preparing them for Primary 1 and allowing them to develop essential skills like writing, counting, and socialisation.

How do childcare centres work in Singapore?

Childcare centres don’t just function as daycare facilities where your little one’s basic needs such as meals and naps are taken care of. You can expect your child to be doing an array of learning and enrichment activities throughout the day like arts and crafts, sing-alongs, and Mandarin classes. Some centres also organise outdoor activities and class trips for the kids.

In Singapore, childcare centres take in children aged from 18 months to 6 years old. Some centres may also have infant care facilities for babies aged 2-17 months old. The starting age may differ between different childcare centres, so check with your preferred centre beforehand.

Here are the different types of programmes you can commonly find at childcare centres in Singapore:

• Full-day: Most centres run from 7am-7pm.
• Half-day: Many centres offer programmes that run from 7am-1pm.
• Flexi: Some centres offer flexi programmes that run from 7am-3pm.

Some centres also open on Saturdays from 7am-2pm, and others may have their own stipulated opening times as well.

What’s the difference between infant care, childcare & kindergarten?

Here’s where it might get confusing for first-time parents. You may notice that some childcare centres also include infant care and kindergarten, while others may just be standalone infant care, childcare, and kindergartens respectively. We’ll break down the differences for you:

Infant care:
Age: 2-17 months old
What they do: Your baby will not only be cared for, but may be exposed to activities, such as music and reading sessions, that help their development.

Childcare:
Age: 18 months – 6 years old
What they do: A mix of essential care including meals and naptimes, learning, and development. Kids aged 3-6 may also have preschool curriculums that take place during the day.

Kindergarten:
Age: 3-6 years old
What they do: Unlike childcare centres, kindergartens focus solely on learning. Thus, the hours are usually shorter, about half a day.

How much will childcare centre fees cost? 

Now comes the all-important question: how much is this going to cost? Well, here’s a brief overview of how much you can expect to fork out monthly – excluding Government subsidies.

• Infant care: ~$900-$2,900
• Childcare: ~$500-$2,700

The fees will vary depending on your child’s age and the type of programme they’re enrolled in. Other factors such as the location and facilities can also affect the fees. The good thing is, in most centres, as your child progresses to the next stage, the fees will usually get lower.

Here are the 2024 fees for some commonly found childcare centres in Singapore:

All fees are for Singapore Citizens, excluding ECDA subsidies. Fees for Singapore Permanent Residents and Foreigners may differ. Some fees may include GST while others may bill it separately.

How to choose a childcare centre in Singapore?

1. Proximity to your home

During a day and age where all we wish to have is work-life balance, convenience is key for many parents. That said, a childcare centre that’s located close to your home will eliminate lengthy commute times and in turn allow you to spend more time with your bub.

But of course, you know what’s best for you. Consider asking yourself the following questions:

• Do I have to take public transport? And am I okay with doing this every day?
• Is the route sheltered from the rain and sun?
• Is there appropriate stroller access?
• Is there parking or an accessible drop-off point?
• Can I get there with ease if there is an emergency?

Some parents may also opt for a childcare centre that’s close to work or the home of another caretaker such as a grandparent or relative.

2. Childcare centre fees

Another main factor is, of course, your budget. And while many of us might immediately want to go for the lowest cost, here’s a heads up that centres with lower fees may experience longer waitlist times.

At this point, we should also note that centres with higher fees may not necessarily mean that the childcare centre is better. You also have to consider other factors such as facilities, programmes, curriculum, location, and such. Centres located in more premium neighbourhoods and malls, for example, may cost more, whilst neighbourhood centres may cost a little less.

3. Curriculum 

It’s safe to say that every parent has their own parenting style. Likewise, every child learns and develops differently. Hence, it’s no surprise that there are many types of preschool curriculums to choose from that target childrens’ development in different ways.

Some common ones you’ll hear of include Montessori, Reggio Emilia, Waldorf Steiner, Play-Based, and even The National Curriculum which prepares your child for life in MOE schools. In any case, the childcare centres you’re eyeing should have plenty of information on their curriculum style, so you can choose the one that you prefer.

4. Staff-child ratio 

The staff-child ratio is also a consideration for many parents. Some centres may have a lower ratio, but this often comes with higher fees. The ratio also gets larger as your child progresses.

Here’s the stipulated minimum teacher-child ratio by ECDA:

• Infant: 1:5
• Playgroup: 1:8
• Pre-Nursery (or Nursery 1): 1:12
• Nursery (or Nursery 2): 1:15
• Kindergarten 1: 1:20
• Kindergarten 2: 1:25

5. Other important questions to ask:

Of course, there are plenty of other factors that will inform your decision. Here are some other things to consider:

• Does the centre track their schedule – feed times, feed amounts, nap times, etc?
• Does the programme include bath time?
• Do the children get outdoor time?
• Are the children in an air-conditioned environment throughout the day?
• Do the children get screen time?
• How many meals does the school provide per day?
• Can I pack breastmilk for my child?
• Can parents sit in for the first few days?
• Is the centre SPARK certified?

In any case, most centres allow physical or virtual tours, so you can check your options out before making a choice.

What to expect when sending your child for childcare in Singapore

We know you have an unending list of questions and concerns about entrusting a childcare centre with the care of your little one. So here’s the TL;DR of what you can expect:

1. How long will it take for my child to adjust?

Every parent knows the dreaded two words: separation anxiety. That said, you may be hit with the most gut-wrenching cries from your bub on the first couple of days as they adjust to their new routine of attending childcare. And here’s the kicker: the cries may last as short as a day to as long as 4 weeks.

Nevertheless, hang in there and give your child 2 weeks to adjust to their new environment. Also be prepared to go through similar adjustment periods when your kid gets promoted to the next stage, or if you shift them to a new childcare centre.

2. Will my child fall sick a lot? 

This one is probably every parent’s worst nightmare: having a child that falls sick frequently when they attend childcare. Unfortunately, we can’t tell you otherwise. Falling sick is very common, and is difficult to avoid. Thus, it’s advisable not to send your child to childcare when they’re displaying symptoms of illnesses such as a runny nose, cough, and fever.

The good-ish news is that in due time, their immune system may toughen up and the frequency of sicknesses may decrease.

Tip: Give them daily supplements such as Vitamin C and Zinc. Some popular brands recommended by parents include Sambucol and Immunped. Although this doesn’t necessarily prevent sicknesses, it can help to build up their immune system.

3. What happens if my child falls sick midway? 

Most childcare centres will conduct basic health checks upon drop-off. If your child is showing any symptoms of illnesses, they may get rejected and you’ll have to bring them home.

If they’re fine at drop-off but later display symptoms, the school may call you to fetch them home immediately. This is to reduce the risk of exposing other healthy children at the centre to illnesses.

Teachers may also verify cuts and bruises before admitting your child, to check if they got them at home prior to attending school.

4. What happens if I pick my child up late?

We’ve all been there – the bus pulling away just as we reach the bus stop; being held up at a last-minute work meeting; slow traffic due to the rain; the list of tardy excuses goes on. The good news is that no childcare provider is going to leave your child alone if you’re late.

The bad news is that most childcare centres have late pick-up charges. The charges may differ between centres, but on average it’s about $10 for the first 5 minutes, then $5 for every subsequent 5 minutes.

5. Do I have to provide my child’s food? 

Most childcare programmes include daily meals that comprise breakfast, lunch, and afternoon tea. You may wish to provide your own food if your child has special dietary requirements such as allergies – but it’s advisable to discuss this with the centre first.

You’ll also have to check with the centre if they provide milk, and then determine if the milk is suitable for your child. Else, parents are often asked to provide their own milk – especially for infants – as their kids may be on different types of milk, from formula to breastmilk, and fresh milk.

Some centres may also request for parents to provide snacks for their kids, but there may be certain restrictions on allergens such as nuts.

6. Will the staff scold my child if they misbehave?

Kids – especially the young ones – aren’t the best as fully controlling their emotions and impulses. That said, corrections in childcare centres are common. If any incidences such as biting, fighting, and accidents happen at the centre, the staff should update the parents.

Of course, the staff shouldn’t be screaming, hitting, or handling any kid aggressively. If you notice something unusual, flag it immediately to the centre’s principal.

7. How will I know how my child is doing throughout the day? 

It’s good to check with the centre on how frequently they update parents on their kids, as this also differs from centre to centre.

Typically, you can expect infant care centres to provide more regular updates, or at least an update on their feeds and diaper changes at the end of the day. You may not get as many updates when your child is in a more advanced stage, however, the centre may send occasional highlights and recaps on your child’s progress.

Many childcare centres now use mobile apps as their main mode of communication. However, the centre may phone you directly for more urgent matters.

In any case, you may ask the teachers how your child is doing when you send or pick your child up from school.

8. How do I ensure my child’s items don’t get lost? 

As you prepare to send your child to childcare, your childcare centre will most likely ask you to label your child’s name on all their items, including their clothes, snacks, diapers, bottles – everything.

Waterproof labels are ideal so that you can wash bottles and the like without damaging the label.

9. What do I need to pack for my child? 

Before your child starts their first day of childcare, you should be informed of a packing list from the centre. It may differ depending on the programme you’ve chosen and the centre’s requirements, but a typical packing list comprises:

• Diapers
• Wet wipes
• Milk & water bottles
• Milk powder, expressed breast milk, or packet milk
• Bedsheet & pillow
• Extra change of clothes
• Small towel

10. When should I enrol my child into childcare? 

The good thing about childcare centres is that admission isn’t competitive like Primary 1 registration. The bad thing is that it depends on the centre’s availability, especially for more popular centres and centres with lower fees.

Some parents may prefer to wait till their child is a little older – around 18 months onwards – to send them to childcare. But families with parents who’re working full-time may prefer to enrol their kids when they’re still infants.

To ensure you secure a spot, you may want to look as far as 6 months to a year in advance, especially if you don’t have alternative care options available. Some parents even register their interest before the baby is born!

11. How does childcare enrolment work in Singapore? 

Each childcare centre may have their own registration process, but typically you can start by registering your interest. This step is usually free of charge and many centres allow parents to do it online. For more high-demand centres, your child may be put on a waitlist.

You will only have to pay a registration fee when a spot in the centre is confirmed for your child. Registration fees also vary depending on the centre. They can be as low as $50 to as high as ~$600, and it’s usually a one-time fee.

Other upfront fees could include uniform sets (~$20-$30/set), annual fees (~$4-$5), and mattress usage (~$15). You may also be asked to pay a 1-month deposit, which will be returned to you if you withdraw your child from the centre within the agreed-upon notice period (usually 1 month).

Upon confirmation of your child’s enrolment, you should also get a form for ECDA subsidies, if it’s applicable to you.

12. How do ECDA childcare subsidies work?

Look, we get it – childcare comes with a price tag. That’s why we’re thankful there are Early Childhood and Development Agency (ECDA) subsidies available for parents with children who are Singapore Citizens.

Additional subsidies are also available for working parents with a gross monthly income of $12,000 and below, or if both parents are earning $3,000/month and below.

Subsidies for working parents: 

• infant care: $600 – up to $710 additional subsidies available
• Childcare: $300 – up to $467 additional subsidies available

Subsidies for non-working parents: 

• infant care: $150 – no additional subsidies available
• Childcare: $150 – no additional subsidies available

The subsidy amount will be deducted directly from the childcare fees, so you won’t have to do anything other than pay a net fee each month.

Things to consider when choosing childcare centres in Singapore

Choosing the right childcare centre and factoring a barrage of considerations can be a lot – but at the end of the day, all we want is the best for the kiddos. Now that you know what to look out for, you can make a decision that works best for you.

Check out our other guides on things to do with kids in Singapore. There are also plenty of indoor playgrounds and kid-friendly cafes to spend some quality time as a fam. If you’re on a budget, take them to free playgrounds and free water playgrounds.

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There are the 2 lines you hope to see on a test – you’re finally pregnant! Once you visit your gynae and have your estimated due date figured out, it’s time to start exploring relevant services for your confinement month.

Check out these confinement centres, agencies, and nanny services so you can baby yourself while you rest and recover from the difficult period of pregnancy and delivery.

What is a confinement centre?

Confinement centres are a fairly recent concept in Singapore and they’re great if you don’t have a spare room for your nanny or just want to get away from it all during your confinement month. However, be prepared to shell out a pretty penny for luxurious and comprehensive round-the-clock care.

If you only need your food baby taken care of during confinement, there are tingkat food delivery services that include confinement meal options.

What is the difference between a confinement nanny & confinement centre?

For most of us, there’s no place like home. Especially if you’re a first-time mum, you might want to get a confinement nanny to stay with you instead. Instead of you staying in a confinement centre, the nanny will come to your home to help with feeding, bathing, diaper changing, and the cooking of nourishing meals while you focus on recovering from the birth, and bonding with your newborn.

First-time parents in particular might need extra help with getting used to caring for a baby.

You can hire a nanny through a confinement agency, which is government-regulated and will handle everything from work permits and guarantees to training. Else, freelance nannies can also be found through Facebook groups such as Singapore Confinement Discussion Group or online parenting forums such as MummySG. 

The cost varies depending on the scope of duties, but ranges between $2,500-$4,000/month. Freelance nanny rates usually cost a little less, but you’ll usually have to manage their paperwork yourself. 

– Confinement nannies –

1. NewBubs Confinement

Nannies certified in Child First Aid

When it comes to your little one, you want nothing but the best for them. This surely includes safety as a top priority. So, it’s comforting to know that the nannies at NewBubs Confinement Centre are all certified in Child First Aid. Should any emergency arise during your confinement period, your nanny will be able to help handle the situation.

Rest assured that the nannies are all trained to provide tailored care plans too. Simply let them know what your personal needs are, and they’ll customise things like meals and massages. You also get to choose between full-time live-in nannies (from $142/day) or daytime assistance only, depending on what best suits your schedule.

Just to make sure you’re doing okay, the centre will occasionally check in with you to gauge your mental and physical well-being. So, they’ll even be able to spot early signs of postpartum depression.

Nearest hospital: Raffles Hospital

Address: 68 Circular Road, #02-01, Singapore
Opening hours: 9am-7pm, Daily
Contact: 8375 8282 | NewBubs Confinement website

2. PEM

Largest confinement agency in Singapore

Image credit: PEM Confinement Nanny Agency via Facebook

PEM Confinement Nanny Agency has been around for more than 30 years and is MOM-certified. You’ll know you’re in good hands as their nannies undergo 150 hours of training before they are deployed. They also have free nanny replacement as part of the deal, just in case there are any hiccups during your confinement month.

Rates vary if you have a multiple birth such as twins, or you would like your nanny to do housework as well, so it’s best to contact them directly for a quotation.

Nearest hospital: Khoo Teck Puat Hospital

Address: 7 Gambas Crescent, #09-10 Ark@Gambas, Singapore 757087
Opening hours: 10pm-7pm, Daily
Contact: 6293 9249 | PEM Confinement Nanny website

3. NannySOS

Ad hoc babysitting services

Image adapted from: Confinement NannySOS via Facebook

If you’re on a budget or would like to engage a confinement nanny for a shorter period than a month, NannySOS’s confinement care starts from $1,999/14 days. They also do confinement food catering delivery to your doorstep ($35/trial meal), and pre- and postnatal massages (from $168/session).

Perhaps you’re craving some couple time with the hubs and want to go on a long-awaited date night, or you both have important errands to run and you can’t bring the kids along. NannySOS also has ad hoc babysitting services ($25/hour) to help you keep an eye on the bubs for an afternoon or evening out.

Nearest hospital: Parkway East Hospital

Address: 750 Chai Chee Road, #01-07A, Singapore 469000
Opening hours: 9am-7pm, Daily
Contact: 6817 2479 | NannySOS website

4. Confinement Angels

KKH-certified nannies

Image credit: @helloiammamachow via Instagram

You’ll be pleased to know that Confinement Angels’ nannies are KKH-certified so that your precious cargo will be well-taken care of. Theirs is the only confinement nanny agency that has an in-house training centre, and nannies are audited and certified before they are sent to your house.

Their nannies are trained in both Eastern and Western medical practices, and also provide breastfeeding support for those who prefer to go au naturale. 

Nearest hospital: Parkway East Hospital

Address: 76 Playfair Road, #01-04 LHK2 Building, Singapore 367996
Opening hours: Mon-Sat 9am-7pm (Closed on Sundays)
Contact: 8828 8415 | Confinement Angels website

5. Star Confinement Nanny

Experience with twin care

Image credit: Ceriine Lee via Facebook

Taking care of a newborn is hard – taking care of 2 or more newborns is even harder. Thankfully, nannies from Star Confinement Nanny have experience taking care of twins and offer breastfeeding support, with up to 2 nanny changes if necessary.

Nannies will also prepare herbs and tonics as part of the package, tailored according to your recovery progress each week.

Nearest hospital: Parkway East Hospital

Address: 8G Yio Chu Kang Road, ICB Shopping Centre, Singapore 545522
Opening hours: 9am-9pm, Daily
Contact: 9889 7985 | Star Confinement Nanny website

6. TSM Confinement Nanny Agency

Veteran nannies

Image credit: Jessica Yuen via Facebook

You and the bubs will be in good, experienced hands with nannies from TSM Confinement Nanny Agency, who have at least 5-7 years’ of experience on the job. The nannies will keep a detailed daily log to help you keep track of your baby’s growth and development.

The agency offers flexible packages ranging from 14-28 days, depending on your needs. Over and above taking care of you and your baby, your nanny will even do grocery shopping and simple cleaning, so you won’t have to worry about the hubs and your other kids having to fend for themselves.

Nearest hospital: KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital

Address: 623 Aljunied Road, #02-01A Industrial Aljunied Complex, Singapore 389835
Opening hours: Mon-Fri 8am-5pm (Closed on Saturdays & Sundays)
Contact: 6337 1793 | TSM Confinement Nanny Agency website

– Confinement centres –

How much does a confinement centre cost in Singapore in 2024?

While the price varies according to the services provided by each confinement centre, the average price for a 14-day stay is around $9,000. Mothers looking to pamper themselves with more premium options can expect to fork out $30,000-$200,000 for a 28-day stay.

7. ReJoy Suites

1:4 nurse to baby ratio

Image credit: ReJoy Suites

Operating on a 1:4 nurse to baby ratio, you can expect both you and your new bundle of joy to receive round-the-clock care at ReJoy Suites. 

Wellness sessions you can sign up for include the moxibustion therapy, which aids in increasing energy levels as well as your body’s production of breast milk. For mums who are concerned about postnatal hair loss, the head and scalp spa will be a relaxing way to nourish your scalp, strengthen your hair follicles, and stimulate hair regrowth overall.

Nearest hospital: Tan Tock Seng Hospital

Address: 106 Braddell Road, Singapore 359912
Contact: 9823 5876 | ReJoy Suites website

8. Kai Suites

Premium confinement centre with spa facilities

Image credit: @panguru via Instagram

If you really want to splash out for premium confinement care, book yourself a luxury stay at Kai Suites confinement hotel. It’s located at a dedicated conserved state property on Dunearn Road, and is a short distance away from leading maternity hospitals such as Thomson Medical Centre and KKH.

At $14,500/14 days, it doesn’t come cheap, but you and baby will be pampered 24/7. As a recovering mum, you’ll be treated with facials, plus pre- and postnatal massages at the on-site spa and wellness facilities. You’ll also be able to enjoy curated menus planned by TCM consultants and attend on-site classes for breastfeeding and baby care.

Nearest hospital: Tan Tock Seng Hospital

Address: 26 Dunearn Road, Singapore 309423
Contact: 8833 2722 | Kai Suites website

9. The Clover Suites

Dietician-planned confinement meals

Image adapted from: @thecloversuites via Instagram

Those who might prefer a shorter stay at a confinement facility can consider The Clover Suites (from $9,388/14 days), a boutique 3-storey hotel at Siglap. This includes a professional baby photography session with props and outfits as well as a postnatal massage.

Image credit: @thecloversuites via Instagram

There’s an in-house cafe with dedicated chefs and dietitians to make sure you are well-nourished during your confinement with 5 meals a day. On-site spa services marry the best of Eastern and Western postnatal healthcare so that you can recover with the traditions you’re most comfortable with.

Nearest hospital: Parkway East Hospital

Address: 697 East Coast Road, #02-01, Singapore 459060
Contact: 9722 5076 | The Clover Suites website

10. My Queen

Located on Sentosa island

Imagine recuperating from giving birth amidst a tranquil island setting, far from the hubbub of city life. Aptly named My Queen, this confinement centre within Sentosa strives to make use of Mother Nature’s beauty to promote your healing and immerse both you and your baby in plenty of good vibes. 

Their holistic care goes beyond caring for your newborn, providing nutritional meals, and helping you bounce back physically. They also have dedicated professionals to aid in breastfeeding training, psychological support to keep postpartum blues at bay, and debunking any old wives’ tales and confinement rules you wish to seek clarity on.

Nearest hospital: Singapore General Hospital

Address: 23 Beach View Road, Palawan Ridge, Sentosa Island, Singapore 098679
Contact: 8028 8186 | My Queen website

11. NewLife Confinement Centre

1 professional nanny per room

Image adapted from: New Life Confinement Services via Facebook

If you want more privacy than your family home can provide during that first month after delivery, book a stay at NewLife Confinement Centre (from $19,998 for 28 days). It’s tucked away amidst lush greenery at a condominium apartment near Bukit Timah Hill. They can also pick you up straight from the hospital for an additional fee.

Image credit: NewLife Confinement Services via Facebook

A full-time professional nanny will be assigned to each room to take care of you and your baby. She’ll also make sure that you’re well-fed with highly nutritious meals 5 times a day. 

Nearest hospital: National University Hospital

Address: 3 Ang Mo Kio Street 62, #03-16 Link @ AMK, Singapore 569139
Contact: 9173 8162 | Newlife Confinement Services website

12. Singjoy

Luxury confinement centre at Shangri-la Apartments

For new mums, breastfeeding can be difficult and painful. You’ll be able to learn how to breastfeed painlessly with certified lactation consultants while recovering from delivery at the Singjoy confinement centre, located within the luxurious Shangri-la Apartments.

Image credit: Singjoy 

Every mum will have a dedicated round-the-clock nanny, who will also take care of the baby and prepare herbs for confinement baths. Packages start from $13,800 for a 14-day stay at a 2-bedroom unit, so that dads and other kids can stay close while giving the new mum and baby some space and privacy. 

Image credit: Singjoy

Meals are fully provided, and you’ll also have access to pelvic floor muscle tests and recovery exercises under the care and advice of a physiotherapist.

To ensure that you won’t grow bored during your stay and that you have a nice keepsake to take home, the stay package also includes memorabilia handicraft sessions. Choose from crafts like baby hands and feet sculptures, breastmilk soap, or coasters.

Nearest hospital: Gleneagles Hospital

Address: 1 Anderson Road, Singapore 259983
Contact: 8889 1958 | Singjoy website

Bonus: Confinement massage & TCM services

Image credit: @doreendchy via Instagram

Besides nannies helping you out for those crucial first days, new mums can also seek out postnatal massages from providers such as Post Natal Massage Singapore and Mummy’s Massage to help relieve muscle pain, increase lactation, and kickstart getting your pre-pregnancy figure back. 

Meanwhile, TCM practitioners like Thomson Chinese Medicine provide confinement acupuncture and herb blends to help rebalance the qi and yin – in essence, the levels of energy and vital life forces – in your body that have been depleted by pregnancy and delivery.

Confinement centres & nannies for new mums in Singapore

Every new mum needs a helping hand and some pampering when they are recovering from the arduous task of having a baby. These confinement nannies and centres will help take care of you while you are taking care of a new life during your confinement month.

Other new mum-related stories:

• Freebies for new mums in Singapore
• Making extra money as a working mum
• Nursing rooms in Orchard

Cover image adapted from: @thecloversuites via Instagram, Confinement NannySOS via Facebook
Article originally published on 9th March 2022 by Sheri Goh. Last updated by Aditi Kashyap on 26th February 2024.

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You probably already know that having a baby comes with many challenges. 

First, there’s the indescribable pain of going into labour. Then, the perpetual sleeplessness, hairloss, and body changes follow. But, unless you’ve had a child, you might not be aware of the confinement myths that new mums experience in the first month post-birth. Or, the repercussions of breaking confinement rules.

Below, we debunk some of those myths so you know what to expect when you welcome your own bundle of joy.

1. Don’t wash hair after birth for a month

The myth: You can’t bathe or wash hair after birth for a whole month. According to old wives’ tales, this is to avoid “wind” getting into your body. If you dare to clean your body off the sweat, stench, and breast milk residue, you might risk getting sick.

The truth: As it turns out, you can take a shower. And you should. A warm shower can relieve your body of aches and pains, and hopefully set you up for a sweet and short snooze in between baby’s feeds. 

2. Shave baby’s hair in the first month to promote new hair growth

The myth: Shaving your baby’s hair during the first month of their lives is crucial to boost new hair growth. If you don’t, your baby won’t have luscious locks later on. Plus, your mom might have tried convincing you how “dirty” your newborn’s hair is since it’s from the womb.

Image credit: Samantha Nguyen

The truth: Babies are born with velus hair AKA. thin and sparse strands they’ve had since they were in the womb. Regardless of whether you shave them or not, they’ll eventually fall out around month 4 to make room for thicker and matured hair. That said, there’s no harm in giving your bub a fresh shave.

3. Cover your limbs and feet to prevent wind entering your bones

The myth: It’s vital that you wear long sleeves, long pants, and socks 24/7 to prevent getting “wind” in your body which can lead to illnesses and other heath problems later in life. 

The truth: This myth was the sole reason why some of us mums at TSL sat in our own puddles of sweat for a month after giving birth. However, there’s no scientific evidence supporting the claim that covering your limbs and feet can prevent you from falling sick. In fact, putting on comfy tees and shorts won’t hurt you. 

But if you’d like to appease your mum who insists on you dressing like it’s minus 2 degrees outside, go ahead.

4. Only consume red date tea & no water to replenish lost blood

The myth: You must consume strictly only red date tea to replenish lost blood – no water needed.

Image credit: @jadie_cooking_diary via Instagram

The truth: You should up your hydration game to boost breast milk production and stay healthy. That said, you’re free to chug water, red date tea, and even cold-pressed juices. However, red date tea does contain an abundance of nutrients and minerals like potassium and iron which your body will thank you for.

5. Add ginger to all meals to keep your body “warm”

The myth: Ginger is believed to boost lactation and keep your body “warm”. That’s why your mum’s been feeding you ginger porridge, ginger steamed fish, and stir-fried veggies with ginger slices. 

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The fact: Ginger has plenty of health benefits. When consumed in moderation, it helps to relieve bloatedness, nausea, and an upset stomach. However, too much ginger intake can backfire and trigger heartburn, diarrhoea, and other digestive issues.

6. Staying home for the whole month to prevent falling sick

The myth: You’ll be told to stay put in bed to get as much rest as possible. A single movement from you will raise your mum’s eyebrows. She might even suggest not setting foot outside for weeks to avoid catching germs or getting your c-section wound infected. Fresh air? You don’t know her.

The fact: A walk a day keeps the doctor away. Just make sure you’re not power walking or embarking on a 2-hour hike. Generally speaking, a gentle walk in the morning to catch some rays can improve your mood, reduce stress levels, and give you a much-needed break from the demands of new motherhood.

You can even bring bub along. Find a more precious bonding activity than an early morning stroller walk. We’ll wait.

7. No coffee or tea after birth to avoid spoiling breast milk

The myth: You can’t drink coffee, tea, and bubble tea to avoid passing caffeine to breast milk which may interfere with your baby’s sleep.

The fact: Great news for new mums who are running on no sleep – you can drink coffee, tea, and even bubble tea during your confinement period. However, try to limit your caffeine intake to 1 cup a day. While caffeine can manifest itself in breast milk, a moderate amount won’t spoil the milk or harm your bub.

8. Dress baby in long sleeves 24/7 to keep them warm

The myth: Your lil dude or dudette needs to be wrapped up in long sleeves with their head and ears fully covered by a beanie or knitted hat. This is to keep them warm and mimic the living condition in your womb where they spent the last 9 months.

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The fact: They might be sweating profusely in the thick bundle you’ve wrapped them in. Unlike adults, newborns can’t regulate their body temperatures very well. Given the high temperatures in Singapore, dressing your baby in long sleeves 24/7 might be too hot for them.

While it’s important to keep your bub warm and comfy, you should check in on them regularly to make sure they aren’t overheating.

Common confinement myths new mums encounter

New motherhood is no easy feat. While we can’t help you with your sleep deprivation and breast feeding struggles, we’ve gotten to the bottom of the common confinement myths you may encounter in the first 30 days postpartum. 

You know, so you have a peace of mind the next time you find yourself doing things like taking a long shower or sipping on a matcha latte.

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Many Singaporeans love to seek clarity and guidance from ancient Chinese geomancy and astrology. Just look at the way we consult feng shui masters to calculate everything from our Ba Zi fortune to auspicious dates for milestones in life, and pore over Chinese zodiac predictions year after year. 

You can only imagine how much importance gets placed on the zodiac of a prospective child, when the time comes for couples to plan a family. Whether you’re the traditional sort who’s all about planning your conception around the lunar calendar, or are just curious about what your future kiddo’s zodiac sign means, here’s a guide to Chinese zodiac animals and birth years.

Dragon – Most auspicious zodiac animal, highly ambitious

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Pros: 

The Dragon is widely regarded as the most auspicious zodiac sign in the entire list of 12, so you can rest easy knowing that your child will have a good head on his or her shoulders. This sign is known for possessing an air of confidence and self-assuredness. Dragon kids also tend to be very ambitious, with a fire lit within them to always strive to accomplish great things in life.

Cons:

Their strong-willed nature and dedication to excellence may cause them to come off brash and aggressive at times. Plus, because it’s such a popular zodiac, birth rates usually boom in Dragon years. As a result, your child may face stiff competition when it comes to getting into choice schools, bell curves for exams, and even during their job search in future.

Upcoming birth year: 10th February 2024 to 28th January 2025

Snake – Charismatic with a strong sense of foresight

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Pros:

The Snake sign is known to be ultra charismatic, able to draw people in with their magnetism and outgoing personality. In terms of your child’s prospects, you can take heart in knowing that this zodiac also tends to have a strong sense of foresight and is able to chart their path and work towards a bright future.

Cons:

While the Snake zodiac is good at protecting their best interests, they can sometimes slip into a more selfish nature  – making them one of the less popular signs for others to form a romantic relationship or do business with. They can also be materialistic, pinning too much meaning on monetary or fancy possessions when it comes to measures of success and happiness.

Upcoming birth year: 29th January 2025 to 16th February 2026

Horse – Quick-witted & full of wisdom since young

Pros:

Like a majestic Horse bursting forth in the fields, folks belonging to this sign are known to be agile and quick-witted. Other strengths include being wise and sagely, so don’t worry about your child being the gullible sort. This zodiac is also revered for being cautious when it matters most, making decisions with prudence to ensure the best chances for success.

Cons:

The Horse is the companion zodiac of the Ox, foretold to slog endlessly in true “做牛做马” (zuò niú zuò mǎ) fashion – a phrase which translates to “be an ox, be a horse”. In line with this proverb, Horse signs may slip into phases of unfulfillment where they grow dissatisfied with what they have already accomplished, and do not feel content till the next milestone is hit.

Upcoming birth year: 17th February 2026 to 5th February 2027

Goat – Intelligent & able to work well with others

Pros:

The Goat symbolises hard work and intelligence, a winning combination that gives this zodiac the nickname,  “the scholar’s sign”. They are also cooperative in nature, able to work harmoniously in groups to strive for success as one. Well, that’s one less thing for you to worry about when your kid advances to his or her schooling years!

Cons:

The downside to Goat signs is that they can be timid and allow opportunities to be snatched up by others, being left with inferior options. When presented with overwhelming choices or paths in life, they can also get trapped in a state of indecision and end up being stuck in limbo while others progress ahead.

Upcoming birth year: 6th February 2027 to 25th January 2028

Monkey – Exuberant nature with great problem-solving skill

Pros:

Tending to be carefree and bubbly, the Monkey zodiac is as playful as you’d imagine a chimp swinging around in the jungle to be. Despite their exuberant nature, they’re able to focus well when the time comes, and are sharp in their thinking. Possessing the strengths of both logic and creativity also allows them to problem-solve well.

Cons:

Because they are used to gaining satisfaction in life without relying much on others, Monkey signs may come off as aloof. Their tendency to operate as a lone wolf may thus present challenges when forging friendships and romantic relationships. Plus, when they’re set on something, it’s tough to get them to change their mind, even if it’s not the most ideal choice.

Upcoming birth year: 26 January 2028 to 12th February 2029

Rooster – Independent & diligently strives for excellence

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Pros:

Rooster folks are independent souls who find great meaning in pushing themselves to continually improve – a win in any parent’s books. This zodiac is also known to be more meticulous and diligent than others, willing to put in extra time and effort needed to achieve excellence.

Cons:

Amidst all the ravishing traits of the Rooster, their ego is often their downfall. Being so used to success and accomplishments of their own accord, people of this sign can be too arrogant to admit that they need help, or to accept when they are wrong.

Upcoming birth year: 13th February 2029 to 2nd February 2030

Dog – Loyal, honest & compassionate

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Pros:

Loyal as man’s best friend can be, the Dog zodiac is who you can expect to stick up for weaker members of the pack. In this case, it means that your child will be one for justice, and will look out for the underdogs in society. Another strength is that this sign tends to be honest and straightforward. They’re not afraid to speak up for the truth, even if it is the unpopular opinion.

Cons:

On the other hand, this sign is known to be ruled by his or her emotions, and to have a more gullible mindset. Not only do they tend to open themselves up to vulnerability where they might be taken advantage of, hardened Dog signs may have trust issues and put up emotional walls as a result of past unsavoury experiences.

Upcoming birth year: 3rd February 2030 to 22nd January 2031

Pig – Sociable & able to see the good in everything

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Pros:

People born under the Pig zodiac are known to be very sociable, and find it a breeze to forge meaningful relationships with people around them. This allows them to easily connect with potential benefactors. They also possess a positive mindset by default and are able to see the good in all kinds of situations and people.

Cons:

As you may have guessed, the stereotypical laziness rings true. Many Pig zodiacs are so content with life that it may end up hindering their opportunities for growth and greater success. This could spell scenarios of unfulfilled potential, or difficulties in finding romantic matches if a single Pig sign grows too comfortable living life without a mate.

Upcoming birth year: 23rd January 2031 to 10th February 2032

Rat – Jovial & lively with a good future in business

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Pros:

One of the more popular signs for parents who want a bubbly and energetic child, the Rat sign is often jovial and lively. They’re also adaptable to situations, and are not deterred by unexpected changes in circumstances. A strength that will prove especially beneficial later in life is that this zodiac is known to be shrewd in business dealings.

Cons:

The Rat sign has a bad rap for being impatient at times, especially when those around them are not working according to their ideals. This may rub people the wrong way, especially when they feel pressured to have higher levels of speed and urgency that they are used to. This zodiac also has the tendency to lapse into periods of moodiness, where they shut people out.

Upcoming birth year: 11th February 2032 to 30th January 2033

Ox – Hardworking & determined to accomplish goals

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Pros:

If your child is born in the year of the Ox, take heart that he or she will be hardworking, persistent, and able to hunker down and get things done. This zodiac animal represents true grit and determination, and people under this sign pride themselves on putting in the necessary effort to achieve what they want – no shortcuts or excuses.

Cons:

Like what we mentioned above for the Horse sign, Ox signs are said to live a life of hardship and slogging it out, in line with the Chinese saying “做牛做马” (zuò niú zuò mǎ). On top of that, one characteristic that stands out for this sign is that they’re highly stubborn.

Upcoming birth year: 31st January 2033 to 18th February 2034

Tiger – Trustworthy & fearless in the face of hardship

Pros:

The ultimate win for kids born under the Tiger zodiac is that they’ll be ferocious and fearless in the face of adversity. They’re also known to be trustworthy and reliable. So if they say they’re going to do something, you can be sure that you have their word.

Cons:

If you have relatives who are more traditional, you may be advised to abstain from having a kid in the Tiger year. This is because the zodiac is said to have an extraordinarily strong aura which may be overpowering even for his or her parents, especially if they are the more docile signs like Rat, Rabbit, and Pig. They may also have short tempers and be prone to rash decisions.

Upcoming birth year: 19 February 2034 to 7th February 2035

Rabbit – Easy-going & empathetic with a caring heart

Pros:

Yet another hot favourite for parents planning the birth year of their child, the Rabbit sign is known to be mild-tempered and find it a breeze to get along with everyone they cross paths with. Folks belonging to this zodiac animal are also known to be understanding and empathetic, with a caring heart by nature.

Cons:

Some aspects which may be a cause for concern for parents are that this zodiac can be too trusting and naive, and opens themselves up to swindlers and people with malicious intent. Rabbit signs may also go through life operating too cautiously, missing out on potential greatness due to paranoia.

Upcoming birth year: 8th February 2035 to 27th January 2036

What your child’s zodiac animal & birth year says about them

If you’re in the baby-making phase of life, you may be on the receiving end of tips when it comes to optimal zodiac birth years. It’s common for elders with more traditional beliefs to advise gunning for specific years to bless your offspring with maximum huat levels, or avoid certain zodiacs which are associated with less favourable traits.

But at the end of the day, your child’s future is definitely not going to be chalked up to just the zodiac animal that they were born under. So long as you don’t place too much emphasis on them and make the negative predictions a self-fulfilling prophecy, it all makes for some fun insights into what your little one’s character might look like.

If you’re into character analyses & personality tests, check out:

• Why Singaporeans believe in horoscopes
• Personality tests to try besides MBTI
• Dating based on horoscope compatibility
• Practical gift ideas based on horoscopes

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